Friday, May 27, 2005

.: Sh*t Luck Go Away :.

Nothing really special happening in my life right now, at least, happy ones are not happening. Perhaps last week I stepped onto dog sh*t or cat sh*t or crow sh*t or whatever sh*t it is, luck wasnt been good and God wasnt been kind to people that I care.

Conflict happened a week ago between me and my friend. Over what you'd ask. Over a game. Yes, silly eh? But maybe we devoted too much onto a game that sometimes things that we do hurt the other party. I'm so sorry if I did anything that hurt all my virtual friend( Some have become real life friends now). But I truly hold on to a principle that is you think before you speak/act. And I try to work it in my life. This is what adults do, right? Words that are spoken out of anger cant be taken seriously, BUT how much hurt it brought to the listener, you can't tell when you're angry. Would it be too late when you finally reliaze? You can't tell either. That is why I'd rather keep quiet and think and not say anything when I'm angry because I dont want to hurt anyone when I dont mean it. I speak out, but not using the anger words. Now that it is settled, is it totally settled? I dont know. We talked. Somehow now we dont talk like how we used to. Of course I miss those times. And sadly it involved my love one who cares and wanted to do something for me, ended up he got the sh*t on himself. I hate being in this difficult situation where both sides are people whom you really care. Things got complicated when your friends know about it. And people who dont know what the heck is really going on started to guess and think it is the way they think it is. Another lesson: Listen to both side's story before you make any judgement. Anything that is not clear and you want to know about it, stand up front and ASK. Gain a friend or a foe, you choose.

If I dont give a damn to anyone I wouldn't post this here. Why should I if I dont care? I learned something extended though. Words are really this powerful that it can either make you feel like in could 9 or make you feel so sh*tty as if you're worthless. Just, to everyone that I know, and knows me, take this to your heart: Think before you speak/act.

p/s: Just a piece of thought.

36 comments:

Anonymous said...

babe, sometime ppl cant take it cos u are greater then them ... just dont mix around with those ppl who u mentioned in ur entry. they are definitely Kiasu and Loser .. hmmm

babe, monday bring ur flashdrive ok .. wanna copy the pics that we took on ur birthday :)

anyway, dont give a shit to kiasu ppl by give excuses of Bad temper or shit .. this is piece of bullshit !

Ciao ... 2k words to go ..

Jae said...

whoa babe...aiyaiyai.. why are u so angry lolz. Peace out.... This piece is not to create any flame hahaa... but Thank you for being a good friend. hehehe *hugz*

Wimal said...

Hello Jae,
As the saying goes what comes out of the mouth is more important than what goes in. :)

However, there will be bad times in our lifes. Take it as a test, a test where we can either fail or pass but still just a test. Either way, it's still a path.

I'm not too sure if I got your story right but if it's between both ur frenz, you might wan to be careful. Sometimes, applying "I don't give a sh*t" may be the best solution. However, it depends, sometimes this kind of problems require ur intervention. The choice is yours. At times, your instincts is what u need to follow for it might bring u to the right path.

Of course, I will tell u this, teng ti lei. hehe. Smile. ;) Sometimes, shit happens and there's nothing you could do about it so must as well be happy and go on with life. :)

Jae said...

Thanks Wimal,

U're right. I'll follow my senses. :) By the way what were u doing at close to 5am in the morning?

Joo said...

Haha...Dan, i'm so sure i'm the Kiasu/Loser u claimed to be. Dan, may i ask u? Did u read carefully what Jae's wrote? "Listen both side's stories before u make any judgement", "Think before u speak/act". want 3 fingers also not by this way.e4

Dear Jae, God do love everyone, why don't we take it as God is giving us a valuable test to grow up? i duly want to apologize again abt my heavy sentence in the game. i know a SORRY won't make things changed but I learn my lesson.
About right or wrong action we have done in the game, due i hold on to my standpoint & my own reason, this is why i felt so hurt from your act. But thinking it all over again...it's only a promise i had made by my ownself altho u r there listening. From the begining until the end...U never give me your words. haha I'm a stupid fellow indeed.nvm i can take it.
Many ppl think it's just a game but it reflex a human personality & responsibilty. One kind of rice may feed 100 kinds of ppl, at your position, you think u r right and u r doing what u suppose to do. But on the other hand, i saw it wrong & i can't accept it, am i wrong? or u r right? Different ppl different thoughts, we may share it but can not force others to accept it if either one of us don't agree it.
Sadly to mentioned abt ur loves one, i know him longer than u do. He is not trying to solve the problem, but taking this chance to scold me with his poison words only, all bcos i always fight against him & he lose. He may pretends in front of you but never runs from others ppl eyes. of course thats only my point of view too..if u don't like it just ignore it or scold/hate me, np to me. But be frank, from the bottom of my heart, I truly hope that he can change by you, a pure heart angel. Always...

Jae said...

Seems like it's getting complicated and deeper and deeper it haunts our hearts.

To Joo and my love one, if u dont like a person just no need to give a damn to him/her. Making flame wont make things better. Take it easy,man. It's not that both of you had done anything to each other that affects both lives seriously. We all are geographically apart. Somemore both of you are just virtual friends. Perhaps both of you are just a passerby in each other's life. Nothing's big. Just take it easy. Dont let this carve a scar in your heart. And how long you know a person doesnt mean how much you know a person. Stop saying each other's bad thing to me because be mercy ok, I care about you both. At the meantime, you can just ignore each other until 1 day, the 1 day, that you two can talk nicely. Who cares how long is it anyway if you both dont?

Why I didnt give u anyword because I am not the one incharged and I cant guarantee anything. There are other members in the guild who just play game as play game. Sometimes not all things can be controlled and how dare I promise you anything if I know I cant 100% hold on to it. A simple thing but because human got feeling that is why it becomes complicated. However we shall be glad that we got feeling.

We've got different views on things, we dont see things from eye to eye but it's okay. I learned a valuable lesson and I'm now slowly pull myself out from the emotion devotion to the game which I wasn't supposed to. Something greater is awaiting for me to achieve. Someone I much value and treasure is there for me. Wonderful and lousy ppl that I've met I will never forget as they gave me chance to learn.

Thanks for stopping by. Take good care of yourself.

Jae said...

Dan babe, sry to get u involved.


**Stop the flame.. stop the flame**

Anonymous said...

Oh ? u are the one ?? hahah didnt know that, gal .. hmm as that those old men said "siapa makan cili, dia yang rasa PEDAS" i didnt pointed this to anybody here but kiasu ..

well, yeah i didnt hear the both side story but i am posting this comment on my OWN VIEW! I AM NOT ASKING THE READERS TO AGREE WITH ME AND FUCKING TAKE OVER THE WORLD!

well peace ~!@! this is just only GAME ..

Jae Babe .. i am ok with it .. just dont like the malaysians having the attitude of singaporeans!!!!!!!!!

Joo said...

shame for that particular penang ppl. mouth say piece but all bullshit. /pif

jae...maybe u shud get far far away from me now b4 too late...bcos YEAH!! i like eat cili & taste spicy!=end=

Jae said...

Ya man you dunno we all like bullshitting. lolz. It does help to pass some freetime. But Dan did make a point, everyone has the right to post anything and shout out and not requesting for any agreement from readers. And yeah, a game is a game. Lolz. They're not the RO players so they're outsiders and they are too, the ones who are with me in my life besides game.

So what's up with the flame?

Here is free for all to post comment. Everyone got his/her right to say anything. You both dunno each other also can put up the flame like this. Imagine if you both know each other. I'll be hearing all the hokkien quarrel conversation.

Take it easy la...

Anonymous said...

yeah penangites are pathetic .. dont you know that ? here u go .. that is the example for us already ... its proven by you ..

take it if u can, leave it if u cant . i said peace .. not piece ... yeah bullshit but make sense ... at least when i got angry, i would think twice before i say something .. wondering u are old enough ? cant read properly ? uh ? think twice before u said ... anyway, still the same word to you .. Kiasu :)

Anonymous said...

yee..y la jae-babe.. ur fren hor... teruk la.. game world oso take it so serious. i wonder how it will be in the real world. *lol* neyway babe! be strong...nobody can stop u frm loving some1, cos u a da 1 who is goin with him not other ppl. dun give a D**m Sh*t wit it anymore la... Yea! we always pay around, bull-shitting, but we r fine with it cos we dont hv a petty heart! n we noe wat is joke wat is not.

Joo said...

angry than speak may not right, but better than speak without thinking and still say he already thought twice.
If u are not KIASU, why u keeps on replyin in this blog? Did u think b4 u write? i'm doubt!

Anonymous said...

Kind to hear a comment or 2 from an outsider?

Kinda lazy to go over the whole story but I do understand game can be quite fun but it does get to your nerves sometimes. Been there, done that..

Words spoken can never be taken back. We spoke of words that are hurting when we are angry but be sure to be prepare to take responsible of the words said.

Life is too short to dwell in arguement. Don't lose a friend over a few hurting words. Like Jae said: Life is a treasure.. hehe

As for Dan & Joo, penang people are great people. Chill!

P.S:- How are you Jae? Come don't play RO anymore.. Join me in World of Warcraft! hahaha

KiD

Anonymous said...

hahaha why not ? cos i am friend of Jae ? why not ?? she is my best pal ... dont you know that >? i bet u dont even have one BEST PAL in ur life ...

as a friend, i swear to god ... i wont say "no more friend" to a friend. this is a really small matter plus a gaming .....as a game player, we should have differentiate the real world and cyberworld. yeah u might have a good pal in cyberworld but still this is a GAME

yeah, i replying here cos u are replied too .. parents taught when i was young, dont care how much u hate that person, must talk to people when they talking to you. dont u know that ? how long u been in working circle ? hmm hmm .... i wonder ...

Jae said...

Eric!!!lolz. how are u? U can see how I am now. Lolz. I'm good la. Try to move on with life. A great lesson's learned anywayz. And hey, I've never been fighting like this ler for the entire life. Come to think about, it's fun somehow.. becoz this is sure a path I'll walk pass in my life else my life is pure empty. 1 month from now I'll still feel sayang that this happened; 3 months this should be cool off already. 1 year from now I might not even playing this game anymore and who knows will I still keep in contact with the friends I know as everyone got a living to persue. 5 years from now everyone will be talking and laughing about this case.

And yeah lor WArcraft.. but strategy game not my type la coz am too noob for that lolz...

Anonymous said...

nah JAe .. World of warcraft is something like RO but more cuner than RO :_)

Anonymous said...

Yeah..
It's nice..
Get a private server & we all play together.. hahaha

KiD

Joo said...

hahaha..jae..i'm posting this blog from morning until now..not by anger that brings me keep on replying...its' bcos i'm having fun here with all the BULLSH*****T....i'm so sure lots of ppl really pissed off for what i've wrote...anger is controlling ppl...hahaha who say old can not learn? who say old can not act like a child? Bcos pamper like a child is a nice things to do...SIM & SIEW & LEZ & etc...sorry that Dan say u r not my best friends!!Forgive me....

Anonymous said...

sorry dude, i dont claim this as a friend. yet, u are a passanger here :) well, act ur age please :)

pissed? nope we are having a real good time .. thanks for entertain us while we attacking by the boredom :P

thansk, really appreciate it :)

Anonymous said...

aiya .. forgotten .. u are not a DUDE ... u claim urself a babe right ? sorry Babe :P

oh yeah, u dont have a cute face as jae does :) so act ur age :)

Joo said...

who so ai bin think tat i treat him as a frenz here? ? a dud? haha... a person is telling ppl he will never old! :-)

Jae said...

I can see everyone is having fun. Deep down inside happer mer? No one likes argue. And the arguement is more n more becoming "wu li qu nao" and "wu lai".. and I am like watching movie.

Pamper doesnt mean spoil and I certainly dun hope to have spoil. Age is just a number not a way to attk ppl lolz Dan u can use that trick on me but plz la lolz.... But age does represent wisdom.

OH WOW MY BLOG BECOMES SO POPULAR OVER NIGHT. hahhaa..

Joo said...

swt jae, a friend close to u bcos ur cute face? scary la~~!

Jae said...

Yo, dun use me to shoot him. He is praising me as he always does thank you very much.

Anonymous said...

yeah i will but still u are older than me ... :) at least if i am 28 years old and i wont be having a attitude like you ... or others ? perhaps .. still the same .. act ur age :)

Anonymous said...

oh yeah, u got nothing to let people to get closed with you


well, babe .. off to yum cha with bunch of friends :) will entertain this fella later on :)

Joo said...

hmm..i like it! 28 is my luccy number...thankyou for mention it out. how many to go for u, 4, 3?? im so doubt when u r 28..already WU FA WU TIAN~ can a well management hire a ppl such as proud as himself?yaya..i forget 3 fingers is very good in using by tat kind of ppl.

Joo said...

i already feel bore blogging with a ppl who seems childish than me. got mouth mentioned "act ur age". DO it urself lar~ shame on U!

jae...its late..i'm getting ready to fetch my lovely mom at the airport.cya =end=

Jae said...

of coz he's childish than you. SO at last both oso bored la? ok. Good. Take care all.

Jae said...

Thanks chew for stopping by. All the best in the last assignment.

Anonymous said...

of cos!because i am not 28 ... hmm hmm an old lady who dont spend time with love one but dump herself in front of computer ... this is pathetic :) 28 u know ... ... ahahha at least i act my age :) i know what am i suppose to do and still ... 3 fingers more suit you right? yeah .i know u like to Ho Lan pa !! so . is this bloggin? nah "28 year old BABE" this is comment posting .. not bloggin .. hmm hmm ... i am doubt, are u a blogger ? dont reply ever if u feel i am childish than you. at least i say things gone through my brain :) u should know right ? 28th lucky number belong-er


YEAH!! i like eat cili & taste spicy!=end= <--- hmmm .. seem like u were not learning well in high school ... this is peribahasa u know ??? dont you know that ?

Anonymous said...

of cos!because i am not 28 ... hmm hmm an old lady who dont spend time with love one but dump herself in front of computer ... this is pathetic :) 28 u know ... ... ahahha at least i act my age :) i know what am i suppose to do and still ... 3 fingers more suit you right? yeah .i know u like to Ho Lan pa !! so . is this bloggin? nah "28 year old BABE" this is comment posting .. not bloggin .. hmm hmm ... i am doubt, are u a blogger ? dont reply ever if u feel i am childish than you. at least i say things gone through my brain :) u should know right ? 28th lucky number belong-er


YEAH!! i like eat cili & taste spicy!=end= <--- hmmm .. seem like u were not learning well

Jae said...

Dan.. not a nice words to say... Anywayz, thing should stop at here. Anger or not it doesnt matter anymore since it doesnt matter if u both know each other or not. Thanks.

said...

helloz, just wanted to say i can feel your pain...been thru same thing before.

Jae said...

Thanks Eugene, thanks for stopping by. It's ok now, i guess haha.